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GENTIAN NAVIGATOR | AM I SPENDING TOO MUCH?

Updated: 5 days ago

A comprehensive guide to confident spending, joyful living, and freedom without fear.


MEET VICKI

Vicki had done everything right. She saved consistently. She avoided unnecessary debt. She planned carefully so future-Vicki would have options. Now retired, those options were finally here — and yet something felt off.

At the grocery store, she paused before buying something she wanted but didn’t need. When friends talked about trips or experiences, she felt excitement followed immediately by guilt. Every spending decision triggered the same internal debate: What if this is too much? What if I need this later? What if I regret spending now? At the same time, another fear whispered just beneath the surface:

What if I look back one day and realize I lived smaller than I needed to? Vicki didn’t want extravagance. She wanted permission -- permission grounded in clarity, not guesswork.

She wanted to know that she could say yes to what mattered and no to what didn’t —without fear.

The real question wasn’t about dollars. It was about alignment.


“How do I enjoy the life I worked so hard to build — without worrying I’m doing it wrong?”

 

WHAT THIS NAVIGATOR IS

A values-based guide to calibrating spending — helping you align money with meaning so you can enjoy life confidently without undermining long-term security.

A CHECKLIST: To Help You Consider Things From All Angles.

Values & Meaning

☐ What experiences bring lasting joy?

☐ What does “a life well lived” mean to me?

☐ What would I regret not doing if health declined?

 

Spending Awareness

☐ Where does my money actually go?

☐ Which expenses feel joyful?

☐ Which feel habitual or neutral?

☐ Which feel stressful or wasteful?

 

Fear vs Reality

☐ Am I avoiding spending due to fear or uncertainty?

☐ Do I know my safe spending range?

☐ Have I stress-tested my plan?

 

Lifestyle Design

☐ What does my ideal normal week look like?

☐ What experiences do I want more of?

☐ What commitments no longer serve me?

 

Future Awareness

☐ What future costs matter most to prepare for?

☐ What expenses will likely decline with age?

 

Emotional Signals

☐ Do I feel guilt when spending?

☐ Do markets influence my spending behavior?

☐ Do I delay joy waiting for “someday”?

 

Confidence & Alignment

☐ Does my spending reflect my values?

☐ Would I spend differently with more clarity?

☐ Do I trust my plan enough to enjoy life?

 

COMPREHENSIVE ACTION PLAN

  1. Define what “enough” looks like for you

  2. Create a values-based spending map

  3. Identify your safe spending range

  4. Separate fear from facts

  5. Identify one meaningful “yes” you’ve been delaying

  6. Identify one low-value “no” you can release

  7. Plan for high-joy years intentionally

  8. Build flexibility into your plan

  9. Create an annual joy budget

  10. Review and adjust as life evolves


WHAT TO DO NOW

Today

  • Write down three experiences you want in the next 18 months — without judging the cost.

 

This Month

  • Map spending into joyful, neutral, and draining categories.

  • Confirm your safe spending range.

  • Plan one meaningful expense intentionally.

  •  Eliminate one habitual expense that adds no joy.

 

This Year

  • Review lifestyle and spending annually to keep joy and security in balance.

Schedule a Conversation: Meet with your Gentian team to align spending with values and long-term security — so money supports your life, not your worry.


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